Soft Power by Marisa Meltzer

Soft Power by Marisa Meltzer

Expensive, Maybe Dumb, But Ultimately Worth It

My heart wants what it wants

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Marisa Meltzer
Oct 23, 2025
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I’m not exactly sure where it started. Birth? If we are talking about expensive taste then yeah, probably. Everyone is allowed to be a basic bitch in one aspect of their lives and mine is in beauty. (And maybe more than one area—we can parse that misogyny maybe another time.) Anyway, I have desire. Insatiable desire that gnaws at me in kind of an OCD way until I give in. No more so than in what we are generously calling “trying times.” Can I afford these things? Not really. But also I haven’t actually whipped out Apple Pay for them all yet, either. But I want them, they haunt me, and I think you might too.

Don’t shoot the messenger! But also enjoy. If you buy any of it, or anything indulgent and related to it, tell me so we can compare notes and bond. There is strength in numbers and in truth.

Glorious regret number one: SUBLIMAGE L’EXTRAIT HUILE LÈVRES by Chanel

I am just going to get this out of the way: it’s a $360 lip oil. For 0.24 ounces! Hahahahhahahahahahahah.

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